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Jo Mosser's avatar

My sister is my oldest, closest friend—and right now they are recovering from an extensive, life-saving surgery. They are so on my heart in this moment that I think any prompt you offered, Pádraig, I would associate to them and my relationship with them. I can also see how my entire adult relationship with them is a kind of objection turned into art and language.

We have been collaborating together for sixteen years on art and writing. At the start, our art together was a loose experiment that was well received. As we kept at it, we confronted the way our childhood troubles shaped our relationship in ways that felt so bad. We grew up with the message that we had to be great. Attention was the currency, and it was fleeting. We had to try to catch it with our wit, talent, intelligence, or beauty. We had to compete. Our lives depended on this. We objected to this. We wanted our genius to be more mysterious than all that. We wanted to create because it was a joy and the soul’s necessity to do so. So we chose to center our artistic practice on the practice of loving each other better. We make calendars, so every year we revisit this intention. Protesting any occurrence that would leave us feeling splintered, we have faced so many interpersonal fires and have forged the most beautiful relationship

I feel the spirit of that protest now, too. We are deep in the process of making the calendar for 2027, even as the future feels so hard to see.

Dwight Lee Wolter's avatar

There was a hate crime murder of an undocumented 34 year old Latino man at the hands on seven local high school teenagers in Patchogue, Long Island in 2007. It took place while we were having a Peace Concert at my church a few blocks away. The murder was fable-ized by authorities who dismissed it as an aberration. A one-off. I presided at the funeral of Marcelo Lucero. It began two-year effort to face the truth and a fight to declare it a hate crime. At the Congregational Church of Patchogue, where I am pastor still, we hosted films, art exhibits, poetry readings, concerts, traditional Ecuadorean dance performances, and silence retreats. It was a national news story. My life was threatened many times (documented by police) because I “took their side” and was fanning the flames of a non-story. My own teenage son warned me not to eat at a restaurant on Main Street because I “would be eating spit.” We held an event where other victims (whose attacks were mislabeled by police to avoid scrutiny) were invited to tell their stories. I had an NPR reporter record their statements (names withheld). The hard drive was subpoenaed by the federal Justice Department and an investigation was opened. Over 100 police department violations and recommendations were in the final report. But now, almost 20 years later and after many positive changes occurred, ICE is back, Latinos are in hiding, Latino guests at our soup kitchen are down, and even attendance and artist participation at our upcoming Amazonian art exhibit and traditional dance performance is expected to be down. This, to me, is a sickening déjà vu. But I, and many others, will continue this struggle as long as I draw breath. Art, poetry, music, and dance helped keep the story real. The talking heads and make-it-look-better-than-it-is committees are trying and succeeding in many ways to deal with the past. But not so much to deal with the present and the future. I feel like we are going backward in many ways. The boards in the floor are warping. I feel I am sometimes sinking in quicksand. But stories like this, Padraig, lift me up and quicken my heart. It helps me to recommit. We remember. We lament. We change. We prevail. And now I finish my morning coffee and go to church where I will deliver a sermon on the Sower and the Seeds. May we cast our seeds on fertile soil. Peace When Possible, Dwight Lee Wolter

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