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My husband (of Irish descent) and I traveled to Ireland several times in the last decade. We loved to explore little villages. One day we happened upon a beautiful cemetery on a hill overlooking the village. As we were walking through I took a photo of a tombstone( I don’t remember taking it) but the word “butterfly” ( my spirit animal of

sorts) must have caught my eye. This was 8 years ago. My husband died tragically 11 months ago. A few weeks after he died a photo of him popped up on my phone. My heart was so shattered. I looked to see where it was taken. I clicked on the photo and right next to it was the photo of the tombstone that was inscribed:

“Do not weep at my grave, for I am not there, I’ve a date with a butterfly to dance in the air, I’ll be singing in the sunshine, wild and free , playing tag with the wind while I’m waiting for thee. “

This “message” to me was a true gift. One of many “signs “ I have gotten from my best friend of 41 years. I have memorized this to keep close to my heart. When a group of words come alive and speak to your soul then they are meant to be carried with you on your journey in life.

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For me, that last sentence is so familiar. I find quotes, poems, etc that hit my heart and make it throng. I have a list (much longer since finding On Being!) I keep on my phone. Sometimes I memorize these bits of wisdom and beauty without even realizing.

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yes! the folder of quotes and poetry has grown exponentially since meeting On Being and Poetry Unbound!

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So lovely and comforting. Thanks for writing and telling us this story.

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How very lovely! I am so glad the words stayed with you and came to serve as a balm for your soul.

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Incredible!

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Credible!

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I am so deeply sorry for your loss. xo

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Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

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Thank you for sharing this, Patty. I am very sorry for the loss of your husband and best friend. Hugs

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Beautiful, Patty...

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Oh Patty! My heart swells and my tears well as I read of this true gift to you. --Emily

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A shiver went through my body when reading the inscription on the grave - what a gift! Thank you for sharing. I hope and pray you are finding the ways that ease the lose of your best friend and that butterflies abound on your journey forward. Theresa

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thank you for that comforting message Theresa.

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Patty, thank you for sharing that lovely, lovely story.

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My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing this wonderful imagery.

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Patty, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so glad you found words that comfort you and give you strength.

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Thank you Carol.

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I love these events of mystery and magic. You were given a very special one you will hold in your heart and never forget

Thank you for sharing this story with us. ♥️

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