My husband (of Irish descent) and I traveled to Ireland several times in the last decade. We loved to explore little villages. One day we happened upon a beautiful cemetery on a hill overlooking the village. As we were walking through I took a photo of a tombstone( I don’t remember taking it) but the word “butterfly” ( my spirit animal o…
My husband (of Irish descent) and I traveled to Ireland several times in the last decade. We loved to explore little villages. One day we happened upon a beautiful cemetery on a hill overlooking the village. As we were walking through I took a photo of a tombstone( I don’t remember taking it) but the word “butterfly” ( my spirit animal of
sorts) must have caught my eye. This was 8 years ago. My husband died tragically 11 months ago. A few weeks after he died a photo of him popped up on my phone. My heart was so shattered. I looked to see where it was taken. I clicked on the photo and right next to it was the photo of the tombstone that was inscribed:
“Do not weep at my grave, for I am not there, I’ve a date with a butterfly to dance in the air, I’ll be singing in the sunshine, wild and free , playing tag with the wind while I’m waiting for thee. “
This “message” to me was a true gift. One of many “signs “ I have gotten from my best friend of 41 years. I have memorized this to keep close to my heart. When a group of words come alive and speak to your soul then they are meant to be carried with you on your journey in life.
For me, that last sentence is so familiar. I find quotes, poems, etc that hit my heart and make it throng. I have a list (much longer since finding On Being!) I keep on my phone. Sometimes I memorize these bits of wisdom and beauty without even realizing.
A shiver went through my body when reading the inscription on the grave - what a gift! Thank you for sharing. I hope and pray you are finding the ways that ease the lose of your best friend and that butterflies abound on your journey forward. Theresa
My husband (of Irish descent) and I traveled to Ireland several times in the last decade. We loved to explore little villages. One day we happened upon a beautiful cemetery on a hill overlooking the village. As we were walking through I took a photo of a tombstone( I don’t remember taking it) but the word “butterfly” ( my spirit animal of
sorts) must have caught my eye. This was 8 years ago. My husband died tragically 11 months ago. A few weeks after he died a photo of him popped up on my phone. My heart was so shattered. I looked to see where it was taken. I clicked on the photo and right next to it was the photo of the tombstone that was inscribed:
“Do not weep at my grave, for I am not there, I’ve a date with a butterfly to dance in the air, I’ll be singing in the sunshine, wild and free , playing tag with the wind while I’m waiting for thee. “
This “message” to me was a true gift. One of many “signs “ I have gotten from my best friend of 41 years. I have memorized this to keep close to my heart. When a group of words come alive and speak to your soul then they are meant to be carried with you on your journey in life.
For me, that last sentence is so familiar. I find quotes, poems, etc that hit my heart and make it throng. I have a list (much longer since finding On Being!) I keep on my phone. Sometimes I memorize these bits of wisdom and beauty without even realizing.
yes! the folder of quotes and poetry has grown exponentially since meeting On Being and Poetry Unbound!
So lovely and comforting. Thanks for writing and telling us this story.
How very lovely! I am so glad the words stayed with you and came to serve as a balm for your soul.
Incredible!
Credible!
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. xo
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing this, Patty. I am very sorry for the loss of your husband and best friend. Hugs
Beautiful, Patty...
Oh Patty! My heart swells and my tears well as I read of this true gift to you. --Emily
A shiver went through my body when reading the inscription on the grave - what a gift! Thank you for sharing. I hope and pray you are finding the ways that ease the lose of your best friend and that butterflies abound on your journey forward. Theresa
thank you for that comforting message Theresa.
Patty, thank you for sharing that lovely, lovely story.
My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing this wonderful imagery.
Patty, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so glad you found words that comfort you and give you strength.
Thank you Carol.
I love these events of mystery and magic. You were given a very special one you will hold in your heart and never forget
Thank you for sharing this story with us. ♥️